Memories shape our identities, ground our experiences and connect us to cherished people and places. For older adults experiencing memory loss, however, holding onto these treasures can become a struggle. That’s when a place like Cambridge Court memory care at Carlyle Place in Macon can be a powerful resource.
So what is memory care, exactly? It’s highly specialized care designed to improve the quality of life for your loved one with a cognitive impairment. Residents enjoy private apartments with highly trained staff assisting with daily meals, housekeeping, laundry and personal care. Staff members also lead activities for dementia patients designed to stimulate cognitive function and cater to residents at various stages of their condition.
Choosing the right memory care setting places a profound weight on the backs of family members like yourself, one that’s often accompanied by guilt or the sense that more could have been done. To help smooth the road, here are some questions to ask when touring memory care communities—and the kind of answers you should expect.
Does Your Community Balance Security and Independence?
Since nothing’s more important than your loved one’s safety, you’d expect to find enhanced security features in memory care communities. But meeting the challenges of memory support also requires a commitment to fostering as much dignity and independence as possible.
For folks with memory impairments, the ability to move around freely and confidently is vital for their self-esteem. As you’re touring different memory care communities, ask about things like outdoor spaces and other features that will allow your loved one to wander safely in a designated area.
When you’re walking through Cambridge Court, for example, you’ll notice that the walls and floors show minimal design patterns. These features are designed to reduce stress, confusion and disorientation among residents. Easily recognizable open living areas and garden courtyards further engage the senses and encourage independent movement.
How Do You Promote Wellness for Seniors with Memory Loss?
Cultivating wellness for people with Alzheimer’s and dementia goes beyond medical care. It also focuses on your loved one’s physical, mental, emotional, social and nutritional needs with the goal of enhancing their overall quality of life.
As you consider different communities, make sure they prioritize fresh air, natural light, healthy dining and a lively atmosphere. Ask about physical fitness programs, social events, spiritual support and opportunities for intellectual stimulation. Also, take note of how residents interact with staff and each other.
Importantly, caregivers should regularly engage residents in activities for dementia patients that stimulate memory function and help slow symptom progression. The team at Cambridge Court has found that music therapy and a full calendar of events encourage residents to participate in purposeful activities while socializing with caregivers and neighbors.
How Are Choices Like Food and Activities Offered to Dementia Patients?
People with memory loss can become overwhelmed by too many options. That’s why it’s a good idea to ask how the community and its staff approach residents about dining preferences, daily schedules and choosing meaningful activities. Their answer should be something like, “We get to know your loved one, understand what makes them happy and make suggestions based on that information.”
Many of the caregivers at Cambridge Court at Carlyle Place have been with us for years, if not decades. And this level of commitment helps build bonds and familiarity while strengthening trust and comfort. For instance, when someone’s having trouble deciding what to eat for dinner, we can suggest a few entrées we know they’ve enjoyed in the past. That way, they don’t have to consider every item on the menu.
In What Ways Will You Partner with My Family to Provide Care?
The answer to this question should suggest they value your knowledge of your loved one’s needs. Memory care staff should establish a partnership with your family—keeping lines of communication open and transparent—so they can understand your loved one’s quirks and habits.
What’s important is that you trust these people to always have your loved one’s best interests in mind. And if you like what you hear in your initial scheduled visit, then drop in unannounced at different times of day so you can ensure that the community aligns with your loved one’s needs and preferences.
What Would My Role Be if My Loved One Moved Here?
The appropriate answer to this question is “Just be there for them.” Once your loved one successfully transitions to memory care, you can rest easy knowing that they’re in a safe, secure place that prioritizes wellness for people with memory loss.
Remember, too, that you’re already doing the best you can. Instead of fixating on aspects of life beyond your control–including your loved one’s memory loss—try redirecting your focus toward meeting them where they are mentally and emotionally. A caring staff can help by giving you insights on what’s working well for your loved one.
Work to create moments of connection, like sharing a meal or engaging in activities together, reminiscent of times before. Embrace the role of being their child or spouse by offering companionship, support and love without the burden of worrying about every detail. By taking this approach, you can find solace in cherishing the present and nurturing the bond you share.
This Is a Tough Time, and It’s Okay to Ask for Help
At Carlyle Place, we appreciate that there are so many questions to ask when choosing a memory care community for your loved one. A quick chat with our caring team can help you find answers—and explore options you didn’t know you had.
To start a conversation or schedule a tour of Cambridge Court memory care in Macon, call us at 478-405-4500.
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